FUCK IT, I'M IN
Say it Loud and proud:
You're used to the comfort you've built around yourself, even if it's also painful.
You’ve become resigned to the status quo, told yourself, 'this is just how it is for me.' You’ve started to believe those big dreams are pie in the sky, and that maybe, the voices of those inner critics are right. That you're not good enough; you're too scared, too small, to unworthy of what you want (and what you need).
My hope for you is this though, that you'll choose yourself. That you'll choose to listen to the part of you that feels ANGRY thinking about that.
That you'll choose the possibility of being brave.
Being brave doesn't mean you're not scared, it just means you're standing in the face of those inner (and outer) critics and saying, "I trust myself, more than your doubt about me."
You deserve to be heard, seen and valued. Because when you say "Fuck it, I'm In" to your goals, you are saying it first.
Your dreams matter.
You matter.
And honestly:
Maybe it’s retiring your partner, sending your kids to school debt-free, building a legacy for your family, or starting a charity that changes lives. Maybe it’s as simple (but huge) as having the freedom to take a family trip without guilt or stress.
Whatever it is, you know it's possible. But you’re not there yet. And deep down, you know why...
- You’re stuck in your head.
- Overthinking every move.
- Excuses are creeping in.
- The sticky notes are piling up, but you're stuck in paralysis mode.
"There's so much to do, but where do I even start?" And it's exhausting. It's debilitating.
This all changes today.
Fuck It, I’m In isn’t about having it all figured out- it’s about deciding to move forward, no matter the circumstances. It’s about showing up (for yourself), taking action, and creating momentum, even when it’s messy, scary, or uncertain.
Clarity comes through action. This is your invitation to take that first step.
Melissa Paterson, Former "nice" girl
When I finally said, ‘Fuck it, I’m in,’ to myself, I reclaimed my power. I stopped asking for permission to exist. I started creating the life I deserved. It isn’t picture perfect', but it IS mine.